Who says a “Sugar Daddy” has to be an older man showering you with gifts. He could be a guy you’re interested in who is sweet, kind and caring. SugarSugar.com has some great tips for women who want to attract a Sugar Daddy just in time for Valentine’s Day.
Learn to LOVE thyself.
I’m not referring to narcissism or cockiness, which are both easily displayed and unwanted— I’m speaking about the manner in which you ultimately treat yourself… If it’s with love, then you are asking and deserving of people treating you the same and that’s HOT!
Learn to say “NO”
Say “NO” more times than you say “yes”—I’m serious babies… Nothing says “cheap whore” better than a cheap whore does. If you become a yes-woman, you become a loose goose… am I right or am I right?
Put yourself in the way.
Whether you “accidentally” stand in the path of some unbeknownst sugar daddy warmly smiling with an apology when he bumps into you, or stop a SD somewhere to ask him if you met before, if you cause a SD to pause and really look at you, there’s a better ‘chance’ of that leading into more conversation.
Treat him like honey (not vinegar).
Like the complex symbiotic relationship between bees and honey, treating your SD like honey shows a genuine liking for him outside of any ‘transaction’ he could otherwise have. No one, sugar daddy or not, likes to be treated as some harsh chemical, your nose wincing from the odor as you try to get that shit away from you.
Have self-value and be busy.
If a SD has ever been married before, chances are he’s all too familiar with women who stay at home while he’s at work, women who are eager to spend HIS hard-earned money with indifference, and women who really add no value to society… (Note: SD’s usually don’t get to where there at by sitting on their asses at home, keeping up with the latest reality show and The Jones’s. How boring is a Sugar Baby if recounting TV shows and purchases is all she can add to a conversation about her day?)
Keep drama to a minimum.
We all like a little passion, but being heavy-handed with the amount of drama you add to your life can be off-putting to SD’s. If they own their own business, run one, or manage a lot of employees, chances are they are at capacity in the amount of drama they can deal with. After a long day at the office, full of inherent catty biddies and politics, SD’s deserve some R & R—you would too.
Enjoy any time spent with your SD.
Needs are not met by demands and expectations. If you do not make the most out of and enjoy your time with your SD, it shows that you don’t really value him or his time, and you will get nothing little girl. The best SD relationships have NO DEMANDS, EXPECTATIONS, and are not TAKEN FOR GRANTED.
Quell that “desperation” devil within you.
Have you ever seen a desperate SB? Not cute.
Live like it’s the last day of your life!
Nobody likes a Debbie-downer! Traveling to new places, experimenting with different cuisines, and experiencing non-vanilla sex are all part of living an exciting life. Be open to the next unexpected moment, you just never know where it may take you!
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A great article..sounds like a plan and a great few realistic steps towards loving and getting your sugardaddy!
Great article for those that crave a married man.
But all honesty it was well written and it does give amazing pointers.
I am glad I married my ‘Sugar daddy’. No he wasn’t married when I met him, he was single but he is two years older than me. LOL.
My hubby always has spoiled me even when we were only friends!
Thrive in your curves!!
Olga
Those are yum!
I have enjoyed reading the many articles you publish on helping curvy women gain self esteem and how to dress. It has really helped me find myself as a plus size women and enjoy myself again. Unfortunately, I find this article to be appalling. You want women to have self esteem at any size, but then give advice on dating a married man? We all deserve a man that will be just ours and not have to be shared with someone else, unless of course it is agreed upon by everyone. How about an article on how women can be self empowered to make their own money and treat themselves with respect and not have to rely on someone else. Treat yourself right and there will be no issue finding a man to treat you right. We as women need to work together, not steal each other’s husbands. Badly done.
Hi Tussie,
Thanks for visiting the site and for your support. The article was done in fun and was submitted from a partnering site but I completely see your point. The reference to a “married” sugar daddy has been removed and we appreceiate you for bringing that to our attention. With the exception of that tip, the other tips are quite enjoyable and I hope this does not deter you from visiting DVD again.
Stephanie,
Thank-you so much for listening to my feedback. That isn’t something that happens very often. I will still continue reading this site daily!
Great article…embrace and celebrate your womanhood and make sure your partner, in whatever form he may come, does as well.