In today’s culture, it seems that everybody is enjoying their sexuality to the fullest extent. “Everybody is doing it!” Or so it seems.
Certainly, better (and more frequent) sex can improve the odds that your marriage will last forever. Did you realize that the divorce rate is almost 60%? The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers presented a study of the major reasons for the failure of marriages. They ranked “failed expectations or unmet needs” as one of the most important causes of divorce.
A few years ago, a number of marriage counselors decided to research a project to find out their clients’ Top 10 Favorite Sexual Positions. Much to our surprise, we found that most people are not experimenting as much as we thought.
In fact, among women, four sexual positions were more favored than all the others put together! Here is what we found:
Fourth: MUTUAL MASTURBATION Most of us went through this stage at the beginning. We don’t even think of it as a real “position.” Just fore-play. But many are going back to it as a form of exploring each other’s sexuality. A new beginning. It’s also been a safe and pleasurable way for pregnant women. Now it’s being rediscovered by older couples, some of them for medical reasons…
Third: WOMAN ON TOP: The perfect way for a woman to get the exact “connection” she wants. She is best able to get the best clitoral and G-spot connection that she seeks.
Second: 69 Mutual oral sex is often the most pleasurable. Almost universally, women love to receive oral gratification and they strongly appreciate a man that can bring her to intense climaxes in this way. Men who know oral tips, tricks and techniques to bringing their wife to intense climaxes are very much appreciated! Men are discovering the best and most effective ways to orally pleasure her and she will be that much more excited about sex.
First: MAN ON TOP Yes, the traditional Missionary position. Women still love it. But, as Alice K said, “I love it when he takes his time. And carresses my face and talks to me.”
One position talked about today ended up far down the list — anal sex. As one woman said, “If a man asks me to do THAT, I won’t go out with him again.”
About The Author: Kathleen Falken has participated in psychic research, dreamstudy, marriage counseling and the practice of psychology for almost 40 years. See more of her articles at WUVING.com www.wuving.com
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