You go on date after date and they all end the same way, with you alone. Either he’s not that into you or you’re not that into him. Maybe dating is not your thing. Here are 15 tips to help you determine if dating is your strong point.
1. You Can Go To A Crowded Bar And Not Meet Someone
Hot stuff, all you gotta do is smile at some guy and he’ll melt like butter. Bonus points if you can actually get a sentence out.
2. Funky Chicken
If you’re self-conscious about the way you dance, you are no fun in the sack. Well, at least that’s what peeps who are watching your awkward moves think. If you wanna do the horizontal mambo, you’ve gotta start by letting yourself get down vertically. Confidence is more seductive than high heels, lingerie, and money.
3. So Close, Yet So Far Away
Do you ever go up to the bar alone and order next to a stud? Luck is being in the right place at the right time, and so is getting ‘er done. If you expect fate to drop a man in your lap, you don’t see how many have already landed around you.
4. Don’t Get Jealous, Get Even
Do you have a friend who gets it twice as much as you and you don’t understand how? If so, start using her as a wingwoman. And take notes if you like what you see.
5. Mixin’ Business With Pleasure
You hand your card to guys you want to call you. I have, personally, in all my years, never ever had a guy call me after handing him my business card— and I handed out all 250! Same thing goes for putting your number on a napkin. You have to watch them put your info directly in their phone. Otherwise, they’ll lose the card—and you—forever.
6. You’re Bad At Breakups
If you can’t leave a guy you’re not into, well, then you’re a settler, sinking in the soft relationship quicksand. No dates for you!
7. Just Teasin’
Are you a tease? If your answer is no, you’re doing it wrong. The brain is the biggest erogenous zone. If you don’t know how to mess with a man’s mind a little, you’ll never be his fantasy girl. And I’m not talking about game playing; I’m talking about straight-up sexy repartee.
8. Dead On Approach
Do you say hi to people you pass by every day, like security guards, the dude that toasts your bagel, and the checkout girl at the drug store? Well, you should. It not only makes you approachable to them, but other sexy people around will notice that you’re friendly, open, and easy to talk to.
About The Author: Simcha Whitehill, a sex/pop culture blogger for the Frisky.com, gives some tell-tale ways to figure out your dating prowess.
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