Your virtual Tell It Like It ‘Tiz Girlfriend
I’ve always wanted to do an advice column, a blog, or hold some type of virtual conversation where we as women can share and discuss things such as: relationships, marriage, men, being single, dating with children and situations of the like. Something that was real and honest; and felt as if we were having Perfect Ten martinis chased by truth serums. Well, I do believe today is the day that we sit down at our cyber café, kick off our stilettos, and let the truth flow.
I’m not a doctor nor a therapist, I am simply a woman, a wife, and a mother of three who has lived life, has laughed, has cried, has dreamed, and at times have failed. But what’s most important is that the callalou of these things have left me with some experience and insight that I now have an opportunity to share…so here goes.
This was one of the first emails I received asking for advice:
Dear Curvaceous Diva, I am a thirty year old mother of two and I am pregnant again. My children have two different fathers and the child I am carrying now is by my current boyfriend. When I first became involved with my man he told me he didn’t want a relationship and he still says the same thing when I confront him. However his actions say something different. He’s nice, kind, he seems to love my children, and he even told me he loved me. Yet, we never had a title and I recently found out that he has been seeing someone else. I don’t want to leave him. I have been by myself long enough. But I don’t want to continue being treated this way, what should I do?
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As women we need to really learn to be supportive of one another in our triumphs and defeats. As women we need to learn to be honest with one another, good bad, or indifferent. As women we also need to learn to LISTEN to each other and respect ourselves as well as boundaries. Thank you “Curvaceous Diva” for for telling it “like it tiz!”
My question……. I have a one yr. old grandson. His mother and my son are becoming like oil and water. How do I get them to understand that they both make good parents but not a good couple? Their relationship is escalating to violence on her part and I fear for my grandson’s safety if his mothers behavior continues on this path.