Chances are if you work with others, you’ll be bullied at some point in your career. The problem is, however, unless you’re at the receiving end of severe abuse, you’re unlikely to realize it.
Constant Criticism
If the criticism from your boss or co-worker never seems to stop, despite your history of objective competence and even excellence, a bully might be to blame. Workplace bullies also tend to have a different standard in mind for their targets, experts say.
Gossip And Lies
A covert office bully is more likely to spread destructive gossip and lies about you and your performance, rather than scream at you in front of your co-workers. Failing to stop the spread of a rumor can be an act of bullying, too.
Work Means Misery
If you often feel like throwing up or are particularly anxious the night before the start of your workweek, there’s a good chance you’re experiencing workplace bullying, experts say. While few people look forward to Mondays, they shouldn’t cause you to feel physically ill.
Lots Of Yelling
Overt workplace bullies tend to make their feelings known by yelling. If you are frequently screamed at, insulted or humiliated in front of others, you’re probably being bullied.
Impossible Schedule
A workplace bully won’t hesitate to change your schedule to make your life more difficult. If your boss always schedules last-minute late meetings on the days when he knows you’re taking night classes or you have to pick up the kids, for instance, he or she may be a bully.
Valery Amador, Daily Venus Diva -- Daily Venus Diva.
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